For centuries, women have been told they must be everything to everyone. A perfect daughter, a flawless wife, a devoted mother, a high-achieving professional, a graceful hostess, and an ever-smiling, self-sacrificing nurturer. The message is clear: To be a good woman, you must be perfect. But here’s the truth—this “perfect woman” does not exist. She…
Tag: Overcoming Guilt
Balancing Career and Family: Can Women Really Have It All?
The question of whether women can “have it all”—a thriving career and a happy family—has been debated for decades. Society often places unrealistic expectations on women, expecting them to excel professionally while also being the perfect mother, wife, and homemaker. But is “having it all” even possible? Or is it just an illusion that pressures…
The Power of Saying No: Setting Boundaries Without Guilt
For the longest time, I believed that saying yes was a sign of kindness. Whether it was a friend needing a favour, a family commitment, or an extra responsibility at work, my instinct was always to agree. After all, isn’t that what a “good” person does? But over time, I realized something. Every time I…