They say laughter is the best medicine—and I couldn’t agree more! The World Laughter Day (May 4) celebrates the quirks, the giggles, the belly laughs, and the subtle smirks that connect us, even across cultures.
Did you know? World Laughter Day is celebrated on May 4th every year. But why stop at just one day? I’ve decided to turn May into my celebration of laughter, joy, and happiness. After all, happiness isn’t just a mood—it’s a mindset. And laughter? That’s the soundtrack of a joyful life.
As someone who enjoys a wide range of humour—from old-school Bollywood comedy to witty British sketches—I’ve noticed how different cultures laugh in different ways. Especially when you compare the famously dry British humour with our lively, masala-filled Desi Indian humour.
British Humour: Dry, Witty, and Subtly Sharp
British humour isn’t about loud laughter or over-the-top punchlines. It’s quiet, clever, and often so subtle, you might miss the joke if you’re not paying close attention. For many Indians (including me!), it takes a little time to “get it”—but once you do, it can be hilariously smart.
Here are a few signature styles, with explanations to make it easier:
1. Understatement
Imagine it’s pouring cats and dogs—roads flooded, umbrellas flying—and someone says calmly,
“Looks like a light drizzle today.”
Why it’s funny:
The joke lies in saying something very mild about something very dramatic. It’s the opposite of how we desis speak—where we’d shout, “Arre kya toofan aaya hai!” British people enjoy being the opposite of dramatic.
2. Deadpan Sarcasm
“I’m not saying I’m bad at cooking, but even the smoke alarm gave up on me.”
Why it’s funny:
This is sarcasm with a straight face. The speaker doesn’t laugh or change tone. They’re describing their cooking so bad, even the smoke alarm has quit—but they say it like it’s a fact. That straight-faced (deadpan) style is classic British.
3. Self-Deprecating Humour
“My sense of direction is so bad, I need Google Maps inside my own house.”
Why it’s funny:
They’re poking fun at themselves, which makes them instantly likeable. British humour is very polite in that way—it rarely mocks others. Instead, it’s all about being clever and humble.
TV Shows That Capture British Humour:
- Mr. Bean – Physical comedy, universal appeal, almost no dialogue.
- Fawlty Towers – Sarcasm, chaos, and clever wordplay.
- The Office (UK) – Awkward humour about everyday office life.
- Yes Minister – Brilliant political satire using clever dialogues.
British humour is like a quiet sip of unsweetened tea—light, thoughtful, and satisfying in its way.
Desi Indian Humour: Loud, Relatable, and Full of Masala
Now step into an Indian home. The pressure cooker is whistling, dadi is cracking jokes at your expense, and your uncle is forwarding the fifteenth WhatsApp meme of the day. That’s desi humour for you—full of life and instantly hilarious.
Here’s what makes it so special:
1. Exaggeration
“He studies so much, even the syllabus got tired!”
Why it’s funny:
We love drama. The bigger the expression, the bigger the laugh. We turn everyday moments into epic punchlines.
2. Family-Centric Comedy
From the nosy aunty to the forgetful nana, everyone’s fair game.
Our humour reflects our relationships. Weddings, WhatsApp groups, tuition classes, nosy neighbours—everything’s a joke waiting to happen!
3. Expressions and Delivery
We laugh with our faces, hands, voices, and hearts. It’s all in the timing, the tone, and sometimes even a mimicry of a Bollywood hero or politician.
📺 Indian Shows & Comedians That Nail It:
- The Kapil Sharma Show – Perfect mix of mimicry, family jokes, and celebrity fun.
- Zakir Khan – Observational, emotional, and relatable.
- Bharti Singh, Sunil Grover – Characters that are loud, lovable, and laugh-worthy.
- Old Bollywood classics – Think Mehmood, Johnny Lever, or Asrani’s “Hum Angrez ke zamaane ke jailor hain.”
Desi humour is like a plate of spicy chaat—chatpata, loud, and bursting with flavour.
🌍 So, Which Humour Wins?
Honestly? Neither wins, because both are brilliant in their way.
- British humour makes you think and smile quietly.
- Desi humour makes you laugh out loud and sometimes even tear up from laughter.
One is subtle elegance; the other is dramatic celebration.
One tickles your mind; the other tickles your soul.
And I’m happy to have both in my life.
😊 My World Laughter Day Resolution
While the world celebrates May 4 as World Laughter Day, I’ve decided to turn the whole of May into my Laughter and Happiness Month. Why not? Every day deserves a chuckle, a shared smile, or a full-on snort-laugh over chai.
So here’s my simple mantra:
Laugh more. Worry less. Share joy. Spread smiles. And don’t forget to forward at least one funny meme every day (but only the good ones, please!).
Let’s live lightly, laugh freely, and remember—a day without laughter is a day wasted.
Belated Happy World Laughter Day—and an even happier, fun-filled May to you!
Neerja Bhatnagar
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For me too, neither wins, and I enjoy them both. Because as you said, they’re both brilliant in their own way. I do have a little bias towards desi humour though 😀
loved this post about the humour in british sense and indian sense. True. There are some awkward humour in the british style that’s enjoyed as well.
Loved this cheerful take on laughter and the quirky breakdown of British humour! Made me giggle and nod along—especially the understatement bit. Turning May into laughter month? Count me in!
You captured the differences so well! As long as they both make us smile and laugh, we definitely need both. In Bollywood I’ve loved Hera Pheri and the family dynamics that are inevitably brought into everything. The brit humor, nothing beats Mr. Bean! I definitely love the your resolution. Here’s to you and everyone following through ~
I giggled throughout reading this blog. I could imagine the situation when each punchline came to life.
Desi jokes always win for me. Not that I do not understand British sarcasm. Par muskurane me wo maza kaha jo khul ke hasne me hain, right?
Neerja, your post brings out the differences between British and desi humour brilliantly. I love British humour for its subtlety and its deadpan sarcasm. ‘Yes, Minister’ is a classic. Mr,. Bean always cracks me up. Desi humour is like a full fledged biryani, bursting with flavours and heartwarming. Can we ever forget Mehmood in ‘Padosan’? He was a caricature of a South Indian but he left his mark. Even Sridevi in ‘Mr, India’ in that scene where she imitates Charlie Chaplin… she was outstanding.
Yes, I realize now how different the humor is in both cultures. But rightly said we need both to balance out. I love deadpan sarcasm and I have seen nowadays some desi stand up comedians trying this style too! I will surely be looking out for these example when watching British shows next time!
I remember reading Jerome K Jerome’s Forgetting in my 12th std. I think thats a great example of British humour. I am so glad I read this article today.
Your take on british vs desi humour was witty, relatable and had me smiling thorough out. The way you highlighted cultural quirks was just brilliant.
I hadn’t thoght of these differences between the two types of humor. Now that you point it out, yes, they’re indeed different. Cultural differences.